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Sometimes we spend so much energy attuning to what everyone else wants that we lose touch with what we desire. Maybe intimacy feels overwhelming, conflict leaves you shutting down or becoming defensive, or unfamiliar with your body, sexuality, gender, and don't know where to begin. To feel more connected; to your body, your desires, and the people you care about, you may need a space where you can slow down, listen to yourself, and discover what feels true for you.

Hi, I'm Mel (they/she), a sex, intimacy, and relationship therapist providing virtual therapy throughout Washington. I work with individuals, couples, and relationships navigating sexuality, desire, communication, neurodivergence, conflict, non-monogamy, kink, and identity exploration. My approach is relational, playful, and empowering. I integrate the Developmental Model, Narrative Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and somatic psychoeducation to help you better understand yourself, your body, and the relationships that matter most.

I believe your body holds untapped answers, even when it feels confusing or disconnected. Together, we'll explore the patterns that have shaped your relationship with intimacy, pleasure, and conflict. All while building the skills to communicate your needs with confidence and compassion. Whether you're navigating sexual health concerns, exploring your identity, learning to practice consent, or wanting more safety in your relationships, my goal is to help you cultivate deeper connection with yourself and the people you love.

VISIT MY WEBSITE

mel@liminalbodytherapy.com

Now accepting clients for virtual therapy in Washington State.

Sex, Intimacy, & Relationship Therapist in Seattle, WA

LET'S START THE CONVERSATION
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    • Undergrad: Reed College and University of Puget Sound

    • Graduate school: Antioch University

  • My work is rooted in the belief that healing happens through curiosity, connection, and a deeper understanding of ourselves. I integrate the Developmental Model, Narrative Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and somatic psychoeducation to help clients understand the relationship between their bodies, emotions, relationships, and sexuality. Together, we'll build awareness, strengthen communication, and create space for you to experience intimacy, pleasure, and relationships in ways that feel authentic and aligned with your values.

  • $200 per therapeutic hour

    I am an out of network provider for insurance companies. I can provide a superbill for our services.

    • Queer and Sapphic community

    • ADHD/Autistic community

    • ENM/polyamorous community

    • kink/BDSM community

    • Latinx community


WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT ME?

SPECIALIZED THERAPY FOR:

Intimacy & Sexual Health

Relationships & Couples

Sexuality & Gender Identity Exploration

Desire Discrepancy & Erotic Mismatch

Neurodivergence & Sex

Ethical Non-Monogamy & Polyamory

Kink & BDSM

Consent & Relationship Communication

Embodiment & Pleasure

Conflict & Emotional Intimacy

MY SPECIALTIES

  • RELATIONSHIPS & COUPLES

    I help individuals and couples strengthen communication, navigate conflict, and build relationships rooted in honesty, curiosity, and mutual understanding. Together, we'll create greater emotional and physical intimacy while honoring each person's unique needs.

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    SEXUALITY & INTIMACY

    I provide an affirming space to explore sexuality, desire, pleasure, and sexual health without shame or judgment. Together, we'll better understand your body, navigate challenges, and build a more connected relationship with your sexuality.

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    NEURODIVERGENCE & INTIMACY

    I help neurodivergent individuals and mixed-neurotype relationships better understand how neurodivergence influences communication, intimacy, desire, and conflict. Together, we'll build strategies that honor each person's unique way of experiencing the world.

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    LBGTQIA+ IDENTITY

    I support clients exploring their sexuality, gender identity, and relationship to intimacy with curiosity and compassion. Together, we'll create space to better understand yourself and embrace the parts of you that deserve to be seen.

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    ALTERNATIVE RELATIONSHIPS

    I work with individuals and relationships exploring ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, kink, BDSM, and other relationship structures. Together, we'll navigate communication, consent, boundaries, and creating relationships that align with your values.

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    EMBODIMENT & PLEASURE

    I help clients reconnect with their bodies, identify their desires, and develop a relationship with pleasure that feels safe, authentic, and empowering. Together, we'll move away from disconnection and toward greater presence, confidence, and self-understanding.

WHAT WORKING TOGETHER IS LIKE

Working with me is collaborative, playful, and deeply affirming. I believe therapy should feel like a place where you can be curious without judgment, ask the questions you've never felt safe to ask, and reconnect with the wisdom your body already holds. I'll gently challenge you when needed, celebrate your growth, and help you develop practical tools that create more confidence, connection, and ease in your everyday life.

You Deserve a Space to Heal and Grow.


Whether you're navigating relationship concerns, healing from past experiences, exploring your identity, or wanting to feel more connected to yourself and others, therapy can help. I'd be honored to walk alongside you in that process.

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CHECK OUT MY WEBSITE

Whether you're ready to book a session or simply want to learn more about how I can support you, I'm here to answer your questions and help you take the next step with confidence.

Let's Start the Conversation.