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You’ve probably spent a lot of time wondering why connection feels harder than it should. Maybe you love your partner but keep having the same arguments, feel disconnected from your desire, struggle to communicate your needs, or carry the fear that something about you is “too much,” “not enough,” or somehow broken. You want more than just getting by. You want deeper intimacy, more understanding, and relationships where you feel safe being fully yourself.

Hi, I’m Austin (she/her), a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist offering virtual therapy throughout Washington and Hawaii, with in-person sessions available in Seattle, Washington. I work with individuals and couples navigating intimacy, desire, sexuality, communication, relationship challenges, and life transitions. My approach is warm, collaborative, and grounded in curiosity, helping clients understand the patterns that shape their relationships while building practical tools for deeper connection, confidence, and authenticity.

Therapy with me is a space where we can talk openly about the things that are often difficult to name; desire, sex, conflict, boundaries, identity, and the ways our past experiences influence how we connect. Together, we’ll explore what’s happening beneath the surface, strengthen communication, and create new ways of relating that feel aligned with who you are and what you value. Whether you’re working through desire differences, healing from sexual trauma, exploring your sexuality, navigating aging and intimacy, or simply wanting a more connected relationship with yourself and others, I’m here to help you create meaningful and lasting change.

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971.384.0775

Now accepting clients virtually anywhere in Washington and Hawaii.

Sex & Relationship Therapist in Seattle, WA

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  • Education - Master of Arts, Marriage and Family Therapy: Antioch University Seattle - Bachelor of Arts, Liberal Studies: Antioch University Seattle - Associate of Arts, Psychology, Communication, Social and Behavioral Sciences: Santa Barbara City College Licenses & Certifications - WA Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) #LF61502281 - HI Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) #MFT-931 - AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (CST) - Sex Therapy Certification Program, Antioch University Seattle - Sex Educator Certification Program, Antioch University Seattle

  • My approach is collaborative, curious, and grounded in real-life change. I integrate Attachment Theory, the Developmental Model, Narrative Therapy, mindfulness, polyvagal theory, psychodynamic approaches, and EMDRto help clients better understand themselves, their relationships, and the patterns that shape their experiences. I believe therapy is a partnership, and I work to create a space where clients feel safe showing up honestly while also being supported in trying new ways of communicating, connecting, and relating. I often provide reflections, practical tools, and opportunities to continue exploring outside of session so that the work we do together extends into everyday life.

  • $200 per clinical hour.

    I am an out of network provider for insurance companies. I can provide a superbill for our services.

  • Outside the therapy room, I'm endlessly curious about how people connect; with themselves, with one another, and with the stories that shape their lives.

    I love helping clients discover that what often feels isolating is actually deeply human. Whether we're talking about intimacy, aging, communication, or relationships, I believe honest conversations can open the door to lasting change.

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SPECIALIZED THERAPY FOR:

Couples Therapy & Relationship Challenges

Sex Therapy & Sexual Exploration

Desire Discrepancy in Relationships

Sexual Trauma Recovery

Communication & Connection Skills

Sexual Identity & Self-Exploration

Aging, Perimenopause & Intimacy

Sexual Dysfunction & Sexual Wellness

Boundaries & Emotional Connection

LGBTQ+ Affirming Therapy

MY SPECIALTIES

  • RELATIONSHIPS & COUPLES

    I help couples strengthen their connection by exploring communication patterns, conflict, emotional needs, and intimacy. Together, we work toward creating relationships that feel more secure, collaborative, and aligned with each person’s values and needs.

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    SEXUALITY & INTIMACY

    I help individuals and couples explore desire, sexual self-expression, and the many ways intimacy evolves throughout life. Together, we work toward greater understanding, confidence, and connection within yourself and your relationships.

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    TRAUMA RECOVERY

    I support clients who are healing from sexual trauma and difficult relational experiences by creating space to process, understand, and reconnect with themselves. My approach helps clients explore how past experiences impact intimacy, trust, boundaries, and relationships.

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    LBGTQIA+ IDENTITY

    I provide affirming support for clients exploring sexuality, identity, and relationships within the LGBTQIA+ community. I help clients navigate self-discovery, communication, and creating intimate lives that feel authentic and aligned.

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    ALTERNATIVE RELATIONSHIPS

    I support clients exploring ethical non-monogamy and other relationship structures with curiosity and openness. I help individuals and couples navigate communication, boundaries, expectations, and creating relationship agreements that feel intentional and aligned.

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    ANXIETY, SELF-WORTH, & EMBODIMENT

    I help clients explore the fears, beliefs, and patterns that impact how they see themselves and connect with others. Together, we work toward greater self-understanding, confidence, and trust in your own needs, desires, and experiences.

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    AGING, SEXULAITY, & LIFE TRANSITIONS

    I help clients navigate how sexuality and intimacy evolve through different seasons of life, including aging, long-term relationships, and major transitions. Together, we explore changing bodies, shifting desires, and creating fulfilling intimate lives at every stage.

WHAT WORKING TOGETHER IS LIKE

Working together means creating a space where you can explore your relationships, sexuality, and sense of self with curiosity, honesty, and compassion. My approach is collaborative and personalized. I won’t tell you what your relationship or intimacy “should” look like, but I will help you understand your patterns, identify what matters most to you, and build skills to create the connection you’re looking for. You can expect warmth, openness, and gentle challenges as we move beyond simply understanding the problem and toward creating real-life change.

Your Healing Journey Starts Here.


Growth is possible, and you don't have to figure it out on your own. Together, we can help you build healthier relationships, deepen intimacy, and create lasting change.

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Choosing a therapist is an important decision. If you have questions about my approach, the therapy I offer, or what to expect, I'd be happy to help.