You've spent so much of your life wondering what's wrong with you. Maybe sex feels painful, confusing, or overwhelming. Maybe your body doesn't feel like a safe place to live, or you're carrying the belief that you're somehow "too much," "not enough," or fundamentally different from everyone else. Whether you're navigating trauma, identity, relationships, or a major life transition, you're craving something deeper than coping. You want to understand yourself with more compassion, reconnect with pleasure, and finally feel at home in your own story.
Hi, I'm Cat (she/her), a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and AASECT Certified Sex Therapist providing in-person and virtual therapy in Seattle, Washington. I work with individuals and relationships navigating sexual trauma, identity exploration, desire, body image, life transitions, and nontraditional relationships. My approach is collaborative, narrative, and deeply affirming, blending somatic work, EMDR, psychoeducation, and agency-centered therapy to help you understand your patterns while creating more choice, resilience, and self-trust.
I don't believe you're broken. I believe your experiences make sense in the context of what you've lived through. Together, we'll explore the stories you've inherited about your body, relationships, sexuality, and worth, while building the skills to regulate your nervous system and reconnect with yourself. Healing isn't about becoming someone different; it's about creating enough safety to experience pleasure, authenticity, and connection in ways that feel true to you. Whether you're exploring your identity, healing from trauma, navigating relationship changes, or simply wanting a more compassionate relationship with yourself, I'm here to help you move toward a life that feels more fully your own.
Intimacy & Relationship Therapist in Seattle, WA
Now accepting clients in- person in Seattle, WA and virtually anywhere in Washington.
206.569.8267
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University of Puget Sound (07-11) BA in International Political Economy
Texas Tech University (20-22) MS in Marriage and Family Therapy Antioch University (23-24)
Certificate in Sex Therapy AASECT Certified Sex Therapist (25)
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I take an adaptive, relational approach to therapy because no two people heal in the same way. I integrate Narrative Therapy, EMDR, somatic work, Solution-Focused Therapy, experiential techniques, and agency-centered relational approaches to help clients understand the stories they've been carrying while creating new ways of relating to themselves and others. You'll find a space where humor, honesty, and curiosity are just as welcome as grief and vulnerability, because healing happens when every part of you has permission to show up.
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$205 + opportunity for sliding scale (lowest is $100 but I make exceptions for established clients)
I am an out of network provider for insurance companies. I can provide a superbill for our services.
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Queer, Gender Queer, Woman, Mentally Ill, Ex-Texan, Sailor, Creative
WANT TO KNOW MORE ABOUT ME?
SPECIALIZED THERAPY FOR:
Religious TraumaSexual Trauma Recovery
Pleasure, Desire & Intimacy
LGBTQIA+ Identity
Relationship with Your Body
Life Transitions & Identity Exploration
Alternative Relationships (Polyamory, ENM & Kink)
Distress Tolerance & Emotional Regulation
Self-Worth & Shame
Couples & Relationship Therapy
MY SPECIALTIES
WHAT WORKING TOGETHER IS LIKE
Working together is collaborative, curious, and grounded in the belief that your story deserves to be understood, not judged. I use humor, reflection, psychoeducation, and somatic practices to help you make sense of your experiences while building greater trust in yourself and your body. I'll gently challenge the beliefs and patterns that no longer serve you, but I'll never pretend to have all the answers, our work is about discovering what feels true for you.
Ready to Take the Next Step?
You don't have to navigate this alone. Whether you're looking to strengthen your relationships, reconnect with yourself, or create a more fulfilling intimate life, I'm here to support you every step of the way.
Questions? I'm Happy to Help.
Whether you're ready to schedule your first session or simply exploring your options, I'm here to answer your questions and help you determine if we're the right fit.