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You’ve spent a lot of time trying to figure out where you fit, adapting, overthinking, and searching for the “right” way to exist in relationships, your body, and the world. Maybe you’ve found yourself questioning your identity, your needs, or whether you’re allowed to want something different than what you were taught to want. You may feel stuck between honoring yourself and keeping the peace, between choosing your own path and worrying about how others will respond. Over time, this can leave you feeling disconnected from yourself, overwhelmed by anxiety, and unsure how to trust your own instincts. You want to feel more at home in who you are, make choices with confidence, and build relationships where you can show up as your full, authentic self.

Hi, I’m Bailey (they/she/he), a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and relational sex therapist offering virtual therapy throughout Washington and Oregon, with limited in-person sessions in Seattle, Washington. I specialize in working with queer and trans folks, couples, neurodivergent clients, trauma survivors, and individuals exploring identity, intimacy, and relationship structures that feel aligned with who they truly are. My approach is body-based, collaborative, and deeply affirming, integrating EMDR, somatic practices, polyvagal theory, and consent-based frameworks to help you better understand yourself, navigate triggers, and create meaningful change. Together, we’ll explore the patterns that once helped you survive, develop trust in your own wisdom, and create more space to respond from your values rather than react from fear.

Healing isn’t about becoming someone different, it’s about creating enough safety and understanding within yourself to become more fully who you already are. You deserve relationships where you don’t have to shrink, a body you can feel connected to, and a life that reflects your values. Whether you’re exploring your identity, navigating relationship transitions, healing from trauma, or simply longing to feel more like yourself, I’m here to help you move toward greater self-trust, authenticity, and connection.

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Individual, Relational, & Sex Therapist in Eugene, OR

206. 395.4614

Now accepting limited clients for in-person therapy in Seattle, Washington, and virtually anywhere in Washington and Oregon.

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    • BA in Psychology from University of Oregon 2017

    • MA in Couple and Family Therapy from Antioch University Seattle 2022

    • Sex Therapy Certificate from Antioch University Seattle 2022

  • I focus on the experiences your body is having and help you develop a greater sense of understanding, control, and choice when navigating triggers and emotional responses. Using somatic approaches, EMDR, polyvagal theory, solutions-focused therapy, and consent-based frameworks like the Wheel of Consent, I help clients better understand their nervous system, reconnect with their bodies, and build tools that support lasting change. I encourage clients to carry the work beyond our sessions through reflection and intentional practice, creating continuity and growth from week to week. I believe therapy works best as a collaborative relationship, so I strive to minimize the power dynamic between therapist and client by being transparent about my thoughts, offering options, and honoring your expertise in your own life. You can expect a space that is playful, affirming, and authentic. I use humor, curiosity, and yes, even the occasional curse word, because healing doesn’t have to feel disconnected from who you are.

  • Tarot & Sex Therapy- Winter 2026 Developmental Model for Couples Training Retreat- Fall 2025 Treating Out of Control Sexual Behavior- Spring 2025 ADHD & Sex- Spring 2025 EMDR level 1- Winter 2025 through Spring 2025 Compassionate Uncoupling- Winter 2025 Hormones & Sex- Winter 2025 Cultivating Inclusivity: Integrating Racial Mindfulness in Sex Therapy- Fall 2025 Agency Centered Relational Therapy- Spring 2024 Somatic Sexual Healing- Winter 2024 Discernment Counseling- Winter 2024

  • $190/50-minutes session. I do offer sliding scale when requested. I offer 80-minute and minute sessions at $285 and $380 respectively.

    I am an out of network provider for insurance companies. I can provide a superbill for our services.

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SPECIALIZED THERAPY FOR:

Identity exploration & life transitions

LGBTQIA+ and gender identity support

Therapy for trans and gender-diverse individuals

Sexual trauma recovery

Couples therapy & relationship challenges

Ethical non-monogamy, polyamory & open relationships

Sexuality, intimacy & desire exploration

Anxiety, emotional regulation & nervous system support

Neurodivergence, ADHD & autism support

Self-trust, boundaries & authentic living

MY SPECIALTIES

  • RELATIONSHIPS & COUPLES

    I help individuals and couples strengthen connection through improved communication, deeper understanding, and intentional repair. Together, we explore relationship patterns, conflict, intimacy, and the tools needed to create relationships that feel secure, authentic, and aligned.

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    SEXUALITY & INTIMACY

    I provide affirming, shame-free support for exploring sexuality, desire, pleasure, intimacy, and sexual concerns. I help clients reconnect with their sexuality, navigate challenges, and develop a more empowered relationship with their bodies and desires.

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    TRAUMA RECOVERY

    I support clients in healing from painful experiences by creating a space rooted in safety, compassion, and empowerment. Together, we explore how trauma impacts the mind, body, and relationships while building tools for regulation, resilience, and healing.

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    LBGTQIA+ IDENTITY

    I offer an affirming space for exploring gender, sexuality, identity, and self-expression. I support queer and trans clients in embracing who they are, navigating identity transitions, and creating lives and relationships that feel authentic.

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    ALTERNATIVE RELATIONSHIPS

    I support individuals and relationships exploring ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, kink, and other relationship structures. I help clients navigate communication, boundaries, trust, and creating relationship dynamics that align with their values.

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    ANXIETY, SELF-WORTH, & EMBODIMENT

    I help clients understand the connection between their thoughts, emotions, and bodies while building greater self-trust and self-compassion. Through body-based and nervous system-focused work, I support clients in reducing anxiety, reconnecting with themselves, and creating a deeper sense of safety and authenticity.

WHAT WORKING TOGETHER IS LIKE

Therapy can help you better understand yourself, communicate with greater confidence, and create relationships that feel more secure, authentic, and fulfilling.

Whether you're navigating intimacy after years together, exploring your sexuality, healing from sexual trauma, or simply wanting healthier ways to communicate, our work together focuses on creating meaningful change that lasts beyond the therapy room.

Ready to Get Started?

Finding the right therapist matters. If you're ready to build stronger relationships, deepen intimacy, and better understand yourself, I'd love to help.

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